Within or Without

Love is such a thing without it no one can live in this world probably. Everybody wants someone to be a part of them with whom they can share their happiness and grief’s. Love is a feeling of being loved by someone special. It can be a experience of lifetime if you are able to find your true love.
All humans or it be the animals too have the desire for the love. So love is a natural emotion given to us by the Holy God. It’s a very prevalent notion that God can’t come to offer care for all in this earth. So he created a special person in our life’s who cares for us every now and then. And the person who is the most beautiful person on this planet is the Mother. She is very close to God.
Some say being in love is nothing but the breeze in the land of youth. Well it sounds beautiful. All things look attractive. Even the ugliest will look some what better. Love is in the air for the person in love. The bells ringing, butterflies in stomach. Mind completely engrossed with the thoughts of that person only and bla bla. It’s certainly a great feeling for those in love. Usually love starts with infatuation. You might like somebody qualities and you may start adoring that person. Or it can also happen you might be bowled by the gorgeous or the attractive looks of the person and that can also culminate the feeling of being in love.
Now the other view of love. Love, basically is the ability to give and to listen to one another to try to understand who the other is. then we may develop the quality of a relationship where each person has the permission to be more open, more honest with each other without fear and without any threat, and thus reach a depth of intimacy in that way. It’s a wonderful way to discover. And we can communicate on a level that we have never before communicated with another human being. That kind of relationship would be defined as a loving relationship.
Why do people fall in love? Is it because of their qualities or because of a sense of kinship or intimacy?
We love someone because of their qualities and not feel a kinship. This type of love gives rise to competition and jealousy. Such is not the case when love arises out of kinship.
If you love someone for the qualities, and when the qualities change, you are so much accustomed to those qualities that you don’t feel the love. So the love also goes through an era of transformation. However, if you love someone out of kinship, because they belong to you, then love does not die. Its there for the lifetime and you can sit and relax.
If someone says I love God. Ok but what will happen if God is found to be ordinary. Then will you stop loving God? Would your love collapse for him? God creates or destroys. But if you love him then he is yours only. The kinship is about loving yourself.
Loving someone because they belong to you, great or otherwise, is unconditional love. And this is only perfect.
Now the question arises should love also change with time? Love is your nature and when nature of a person can’t change. What changes is the expression of love. And it’s true also. In the old days love was restricted to the boundary walls of the houses, then came the era of romancing in around the trees and now it’s all open. Mother’s love is her nature and when nature can’t change how come the love change? Only change is the expression of love.
Being in love inspires. It instills the confidence in yourself. The visible sign of love is an undying smile.
Love is not being possessive but giving the space and freedom that ones yearns for. In freedom only love can blossom. Renunciation and love go hand in hand together. Infact they are the same sides of them coin. Renouncing your other deeds can make flourish.
Only renunciation can bring the love and joy. Without it love dies and turns into the misery, possessiveness, jealousy and anger. It brings the contentment and contentment sustains the love.
So, in love is a beautiful sentiment but one should be careful in giving the liberty to their love. No one can live without it. Love should be within too.
The within and without.
“When love glows, it is bliss.
When it flows, it is a comparison.
When it blows, it is anger.
When it ferments, it is a jealousy.
When it is all “no’s”, it is hatred.
When it acts, it is perfection.
When love know, it is me”

“Walk With Me To”

Walk with me to the ray of hope,

The hope that is still there,

Even it might be small but it is there,

Walk with me, to the path of life,

So that we can explore the bended road,

The beauty of life is still to be enfolded,

In its magnificent way,
Walk with me to find comfort with each other,

So that whatever grief may come across,

That is gone,

Lets find strength, when the wait is long,
Laugh with me to the smile that is waiting for u,

Through which we can give pleasure to others,

Lets bring smile to people,And wipe out the tears,
Relish with me, the wonderful life,

The life which most beautiful,

Find love with me, in others heart too,

Really this life is so beautiful,
So will you walk with me to……………….?

Kabhi Wo Ankahi Baatein

Kabhi wo ankahi baatein
mere dil ka dard bayaan krti hai,
Kabhi cehre ki muskhkaan banti hai,
Ha kuch baatein ankahi si,
Aaj fir se na jane kyu
mausam ne li hai aangdaayi,
Aaj fir se mausaam ne kuch kaha hai,
Aaj fir shaam se
kisi ki yaadon ka basera hai,
Hawaon me vahi khusbhoo hai,
Laga aise ki koi milne ayaa,
Kisi ne dastak di hai dil k darwaaje par,
Hai aaj sawaan ki ghata nirali,
dol raha hai man mera bi,
Ye khushi ki lehar chal rahi hai,

hawa bi khushi k geet ga rahi hai,
Rimjhim mega ki barsa hai,
fir se laga ki wo aayega
kuch rukhi rukhi si awaaz huyi
par dur kahi patta gira tha
jiski ghunj mere dil me huyi thi
aankhe me hai intzzar uska
laboo par hai uska name
uff ye dil bi khambahkt
dhadak raha hai uske liye hi
par wo na aya
kabhi awaaj main ped gyi darar'ain...
kabhi ashq ho gye be-paimaane
Kuch baatein ankahi si,
Kabhi in pede k sang dolta hai wo,
Kabhi phoolon k sang mushkurata hai who,
Aaj wo aya hai ban k barkha bahaar,
Mehakte huye saawan ko aur mehkaane,
Khil uta hai man mera fir se,
Ha kuch baatein ankahi si,
Kabhi wo ankahi baatein
mere dil ka dard bayaan krti hai,
Kabhi cehre ki muskhkaan banti hai,
Ha kuch baatein ankahi si,
kuch baatein ankahi si,
kuch baatein ankahi si,
kuch baatein ankahi si,
kuch baatein ankahi si,

I Wish

I wish 16th July 2006 was not 16th July 2006.
I wish 18th July 2006 was not 18th July 2006.
I wish 8th august 2006 was not 8th august 2006.
I wish 4th September 2006 was not 4th September 2006.
I wish 3rd December 2006 was not 3rd December 2006.
I wish 19th December 2006 was not 19th December 2006.
I wish I could confiscate all these dates from on my mind.
I wish I could change all this.
I wish I could change the verdict.
I wish I could wipe out tears from my eyes.
I wish I had not tears in my eyes.
I wish I could have understood people more to a large extent.
I wish I could have……..
I wish I could have……..
I wish I could have……..
I wish I could have……..
I cannot change what is all a history now.
But I can change myself to such an extent that these dates are probably never a part of me. And yes I will transform myself to a new human being.

SACHAI

Jahajo ko duba de, usse tufaan kehte hai,

Tufaano se jo takkar le, usse insaan kehte hai

Muskhurakar gamm ka zahar ,jinko pinaa aa gaya,

Yah hakihat hi hai is jahaan me, unko jeena aa gaya

"KRISHNA SAAR"

What has been said in GITA?

Whatever has happened, that is good because that thing cannot be changed now.
Whatever is happening, that happening because it is for your good.
Whatever going to be happened in future, that will also be good.
What you have lost? Why are you crying?
You have not anything because you didn’t brought anything in this world.
Nothing is lost because you have not created anything till now.
Whatever you had with you, God has given to you.
Whatever you have given, that was given to you only by God.
Today what is yours, tomorrow it will somebody else’s.
And day after tomorrow will be somebody else’s.
This change is inevitable!!!!

Look Within, Not Without!!!!

“Change is the essence of life.Be willing to surrender what you are for what you could become.”

“Be the change you want to see in the world.”- Mahatma Gandhi

"He who loves 50 people has 50 woes; he who loves no one has no woes."-Lord Buddha

Food For Thought!!!!

Take a look!!!!!

Downfall in life can always viewed be as a new platform to rise up.
Strike outs are the invitations to swing harder next time.
Put downs are setups for comeback.

Failures can be divided into 2 classes-
Those people who thought and never did.
Those people who did and never thought.

Winners on the other hand, think through their challenges and then take the decisive action.
They look back to the past and learn from it.
They look forward to the future and anticipate it.
Growth is never easy.

Comebacks come in different sizes and shapes- big or little.
They require varying amount of time to complete- long or short.
Some demand certain attributes- from humility to humor- if they are to be successful.

3 markers of the comebacks-
Prepare
Repair
Care

Miracle can be expected any day. Believe in it-
Prepare for it
Expect it
Pray for it.

Positive attitude in life always leads us to that path where we always want to reach. So have a positive attitude towards life. Move towards the goal by coming to the edge of hope and taking the long leap of faith. With hope there is an ambiguity that whether things will work out or not but with faith there is assurance of it. So don’t wait for things to happen. We must act and compel future to smile on us.
FEW EVER WIN WHO WAIT